Relax about the "delay" with UPS. With big TV sets, they are delivered by private courier and not by UPS.
I had the same issue with my TV set shown as being in Oklahoma City for 5 days and its not being delivered, and I had the same concerns. However, the set was delivered...eventually. The courier said that there are warehouses full of TV sets to be delivered in the area and that there is not enough couriers to do the deliveries.
That said, you probably have the same circumstances in your area too. Lots of TVs being sold via the 'net.
Reason of review: Problem with delivery.